Booking an escort, discretion & privacy

Just wanted to blog in more depth about booking an escort. Unfortunately, our job we get a ridiculously high number of timewasters. In fact, 80 percent of “enquiries” are timewasters. A mixture of hagglers, abusive / aggressive texts (including passive aggressive) people like what’s your prices, what’s your profile name again I’ve contacted so many escorts (yes screams I’m a genuine client who wants to book), U free (no other info) , d8ck pics , links sent to porn , what services you do I’ve read your profile but want more in depth detail (yes people trying engage with free sex chat) oh and my favourite a client who wants help you earn more / be your security (pimp) or pervy photographer oh and there’s the competition pimps / agencies or even other indies sending you fake bookings so you get tied up and don’t take genuine bookings / or leave destination early the list goes on!
Also, with being a touring escort, when you in new area its like a timewasters convention they all come out of the woodwork on day one, “hey new girl in the area lets waste her time”, as the local escorts got their numbers blocked! In fact, talking with other escorts timewasters have massively increased recently, that’s why so many escorts now taking deposits or double/ triple booking!
I don’t think genuine clients even realise the amount of timewaster enquiries we have to shift through to get to genuine clients, that’s why so many escorts now have such a strict booking system in place and may take a while to respond. I think my record was I blocked 246 numbers!!! over 3 days!!! in one certain touring location!
No fuss booking system by txt / whats app
I’m an independent escort therefore I don’t have a receptionist and manage all my communications texts/ Msgs/ emails myself so sometimes there’s a delay in comms, so gents appreciate your patience!
If you would like to book it’s straight forward / no fuss process.
Simply txt / What’s app with:
- My Name – Ruby, not baby, not U free, not U avail etc. You will grab my attention when browsing txts with my name Ruby. I then know you at least you had a glance of my profile, not texting multiple escorts with no intention of booking.
- Client name – Doesn’t have be real name. Can be your punter name. I just find it easier when booking in clients appts in diary having a name.
- Time you want to book – for example 7pm or are you free in morning 8am til 12 noon etc.
- Duration & service – Are you after 30 mins or 2 hrs, Goddess service or Fantasy / fetish service etc. I have a straightforward pricing system Blow and go / Quickie , Goddess, Vip Shower service or VIP fantasy / Fetish service etc. I don’t charge extra for this and extra for that – pls have a look at the different packages I offer so you know what is included as some may be slightly more expensive by £10 / 20
So here’s examples
“Hi Ruby I’m Paul looking for 2hr goddess booking at 7pm”
Or
“Hi Ruby I would like a 1 hr fantasy roleplay booking at 4pm, I want secretary / boss roleplay , my name is Rob”
I will reply whether available at time or suggest alternative times.
Then confirm prices and book you in the diary and send address details once you have confirmed
So for example
“Rob – yes free at 4pm, it’s 170 roleplay service if you can confirm and I will book you in the diary “
Rob replies: Yes confirmed
The hotel address such and such , free parking or park here etc. Txt when outside hotel. See you at 4pm x
I always ask if you like specific outfits / lingerie or if you have a roleplay in mind send a general txt with what it’s about, so I know I can cater for your fantasies.
I often have 3 fantasy outfits with me, PVC & boots, heels and couple different sets of lingerie and stockings. So, you welcome to request something. Maybe you want PVC boots, maybe bare legs, maybe just robe and naked underneath. Pls txt what you like and happy to cater for your requests (providing I have the outfit with me).
I do come across on texts as very direct / straight to the point, this is too weed out all the timewasters and make sure both parties fully understand the costs & services included so both our time isn’t being wasted.
When you meet me in person, I’m a warm and friendly and passionate about my job! I always joke I got best job, get paid to cum! Plus get to meet such wonderful, interesting people from all different walks of life!
I never double book; I never take a deposit, I ask for cash on arrival (see my other blog about Why escorts take cash).
Discretion / Privacy
My work phone is locked by pin number and only myself has access to it. I have no receptionist / or any other person responding to texts or emails or taking bookings.
I delete the texts / mgs after our booking. I never txt clients out of the blue announcing upcoming tours / trying drum up business. The only time I txt client is if I can’t do appt / ill/ cancelled tour etc. But I keep it discreet.
I do however save numbers. Literally in phone my genuine list for example Dave Cheltenham or if aw member with aw nickname. It’s just literally for reference so I know your genuine and what location I saw you.
I also have a timewaster list / No show list. So, Mark NO show Newport / Or Haggler Cheltenham or sends d8ck pics timewaster etc so I know not to take any future bookings from them. Or simply block them.
Cancelling
I don’t mind if you cancel, I get it, life is unpredictable, you sometimes have to work later than expected, family emergency/ medical emergency /you’re feeling under the weather, car troubles/ stuck in motorway tail back etc. But please let me know you can’t make it. If you no show, then I will just block you/ add you to the no-show list and not offer you any future appts.
Sorry long blog this time!
Thanks for taking the time to read!
Ruby xxx